• 26/03/2023
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ALICE (42): I messed up what I could. Now I miss the tenderness in the relationship<

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I have an ideal man

Tenderness, understanding, affection, sensitivity and friendship have always been one of the basic values ​​of marriage for me. I've never really dealt with the issue of sex. For me, making love is a pleasant and nice moment of mutual rapprochement, but it is not the most important thing for me in a relationship. Now I'm sitting in the garden thinking and I'm full of regrets. I messed up in my marriage the very thing I always wanted and had.

My beloved husband Pepa is the man I have dreamed of since I was a teenager. He is kind, sensitive, friendly, perceptive and attentive. Life with him was like a fairy tale for me. In the relationship and subsequently in the marriage, I never lacked anything with him. I felt loved and cared for.

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Harmonious relationship

Before we left for work in the morning, we exchanged a kiss goodbye. The same was for welcome, good night and good morning. It was a matter of course to hold hands whenever we went somewhere. Pepa never had a problem with just stroking my hair or face and smiling at me. Sometimes he slapped my ass and complimented me on it. My ideas about a tender relationship were one hundred percent fulfilled.

Nothing changed even when the children arrived. I would say that our mutual tenderness has multiplied even more. And I was very happy for that. I wanted our children to grow up in a loving and gentle environment. I hoped that they would carry it into their lives anyway.

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ALICE (42): I messed up, what I could. Now I miss tenderness in my relationship

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Argument over celebration

Tenderness in a relationship has always brought a certain amount of harmony and peace to my life. I devoted my tenderness to both my daughter and my son. Pepa only wanted a daughter and son to be a proper footballer. I didn't hold a grudge against him, it felt so fine.

Don't think. Sometimes there were days and maybe even weeks when we didn't play a lot of tenderness. There were times when we argued about something or had another problem, just like in any other relationship. And I am to blame for the last and biggest conflict in our relationship.

We had a fight over utter stupidity. We were dealing with the organization of my son's birthday party. I wanted to have her in the children's center and pay for everything. Pepa wanted to have her in the football club and solve everything by herself. We totally disagreed and had a nasty fight about it.

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In addition, our son was there, for whom we completely spoiled the celebration with our exit. He scolded us and thereby incited us even more against him. We said a lot of nasty things to each other. Maybe everything we had in mind. All angry, I then went to the garden to calm down.

I thought of calling my best friend and confiding in her about everything. I needed to relieve myself. I didn't choose the most tasteful dictionary, I cursed Pepa a lot and told my friend everything where I felt a problem. From bed to Pep's soccer ends. What I didn't know was that Pepa was standing not far from me and heard everything. He originally came to me to make amends and apologize. But after what he heard, he gave me a rather nasty look and left.

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I humiliated him

He had nothing to explain, it just happened and I said what I said. I apologized to him. But he feels humiliated and betrayed. And I understand him because I would feel the same way. After about three days we started talking normally. We function as before, but I still feel that inside Pepa is still very angry. Those tender moments that I loved so much disappeared from our relationship.

It's been three months since the tenderness has gone from our relationship, and I don't know how to fix it. When I want to talk about it with Pepa, she always tells me some sentence that I said to a friend on the phone. He even told me once that I didn't deserve his attention anymore. And that's the end of our debate. Tenderness in a relationship was very important to me and now I miss it a lot. Unfortunately, I don't know what to do to get everything back on track.