• 09/09/2022
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The story of Dušan: I want to finally spend Christmas just with my family, without a mother -in -law<

I love my wife very much, I was willing to live with her mother for her.Mother -in -law is strange, a lot of its own, everything is immediately created, quite often the opposite of the vast majority of people around her.But I did not fall in love with her, I love her daughter, and she is not like her mother at all.But never say never, but I firmly hope my woman will remain as I recognized her and what is she now.

Common housing with a mother -in -law

When I met my wife, I was a freshly graduated engineer with ideals and empty pocket.I just started working in my first job, I lived with a friend in a rented apartment.I come from a small town, I am an only child, a child of doctors.My parents had a private office in our city, in the house where I grew up, and they enjoyed great seriousness among neighbors.They hoped to go in their footsteps, but I never wanted to be a doctor.

I moved away from my parents and began to live my own life.But in the corner of my soul I felt I would return home anyway.But before it eventually occurred, I lived with my wife and son at the mother -in -law.She was divorced for the second time, her first man was my wife's father.My wife met him regularly and still meets, dad in her life means a lot.And I have to say that I also liked it.He's a fair guy.Has another family and two children.With the mother -in -law divorced when my wife was four years old.He told me how he caught her in bed with a stranger and just couldn't erase it from memory.They divorced, seeing her daughter quite often, which was said to suit her mother, so she could enjoy her lover and later her husband.

But even the second marriage of the mother -in -law did not turn out, apparently the guy, so she always talked about him in front of me, but I didn't know him much, he went mainly after her money.She is rich, after her parents, restituents, inherited quite a decent fortune.At a time when my wife (then girlfriends at that time) and I decided to live together, we offered us to live with her.So I didn't want much, but my girlfriend insisted on it.The mother would stay alone in a large apartment, it just divorced for the second time, and why should we squeeze in some small rent when we can live much more comfortable.I'd calmly squeeze, but my wife was there at home, so I retreated.

Christmas with the mother -in -law for nothing was worth

True, I retreated quite often, but it wasn't so terrible to complain.My wife was always on my side when there was any conflict.But what bothered me was Christmas or.digestion of Christmas Eve with the mother -in -law (we went to our holidays for our holidays).I thought we were going to be fairly alternating, one year with her, the other with my parents, but she always made a scene that we want to leave her alone.But every time the same scenario unfolded, my wife flew around the plate, the mother -in -law commanded her.She was still trying to pull attention to herself, did not understand that we wanted to enjoy peace, well -being and share joy with our son.No, she had to depict how many gifts came to and that we would never give her as much as she invested in us.She folded her nose over every gift she had received.

When we begged her not to speak at least in front of our son that he still thinks that the gifts wears Jesus, she said that he should learn the truth as soon as we should not fool him with such delusions.Christmas Eve and evening with her was always full of tension and stress.Gradually it started to mind my wife.

We have moved

I thought this year that everything would be differently different.We moved away from the mother -in -law six months ago.Ours have stopped ordinating and finally enjoy retirement.The house remained a large apartment, their original surgery.They offered us if we wanted to move to them, to reconstruct the whole space.The offer was tempting, I would take her right away, but I was afraid of what my wife.She agreed.

But the new friend of her mother, a man who did not fit any of us, played a big role in this.Such a type that knows everything best, everywhere was, at least twice, saw everything and only his opinion is the right one.All around are morons but he is a genius.He is also divorced several times, last lived with his friend, he has no good job.With a mother -in -law are incredibly complementary.

When we moved out, he immediately moved to her.He came with two plastic bags, I do not understand how one has nothing at all at all, sticking his mother and pulling money from her, but she doesn't mind.

Christmas is in a few days and we were looking forward to how we will finally be alone, how we enjoy the well -being, unpacking gifts in only three.My parents decided to spend the holidays in Moravia with her aunt, my father's sister who widowed in the summer.However, when the mother -in -law learned it, she said that we would not be separately and that the two of them would come to us.The family is to be together.When the woman told me, we both agreed that in any way would it be that way.But the mother -in -law affects my wife on feelings and she is a little retreating, but I no longer spend the holidays with the mother -in -law and not at all with her boyfriend.Dušan

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