• 11/12/2022
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Cancer took Nikol her husband and dad's children.The widow remained on the children and debts alone<

Rakovina vzala Nikol manžela a dětem tátu. Vdova zůstala na děti i dluhy sama

Due to the originally benign brain tumor, Luke had to undergo surgery in 2016.Doctors removed 80 % of the tumor at that time, they could not be more because there was a risk of death or paralysis.

"After surgery, her husband couldn't walk up the stairs, control his body.He had to learn to walk again or to lubricate bread, ”recalls Nikol's difficult period.

But he managed to return to everyday life, but because of epilepsy he had to leave his beloved work of the driver, nine months after the operation began working as a warehouse worker.Moreover, his life insurance could not be restored after the last time, precisely because of seizures.

Since the husbands returned to normal tracks, they finally decided to start a family, which they managed soon.Son Jáchym was born in 2017.Luke took care of his son, was excited but wished a little girl.But when Nikol became pregnant again, another overwhelming message came from doctors.Luke's tumor has changed to malignant and began to grow.

"The characters were there, he began to forget, gradually paralyzed, at the end he did not recognize us at all," says Nikol, who at that time felt great helplessness.

She took care of her husband and children all the time.But from her, the wives are."It was normal for me to take care of him, he would do it for me too.But I have always believed to get out of it, ”adds my mother's four -year -old Jáchym and one -year Rozárky today.

In her words, she couldn't admit the situation, she had to be strong because.

Due to Luke's deteriorating state of health he could no longer be in home care.He was on droplets, he had to supervise the professional staff.“Most wished to see the children.When he was in the hospital, he wished to be with us at home, but unfortunately it was no longer possible, ”recalls Nikol.

After Luke's death 7.November 2021 occurred for the family very difficult period.The son of Jáchym is still very worried about it.He does not show emotions too much, but that is why Nikol is with him a psychologist.“Jáchym understands it all too well.He asks me daily when my dad comes, even though she knows he's in the halves.Rozárka does not perceive it so far, but it will be, ”adds the widow.

The current income of the family is only 9 thousand crowns.Nikol is handling orphan's pensions, but since her husband was a professional driver, it would not be so much money.But they could at least do to cover a mortgage.Therefore, she decided to establish a collection for her children.To have at least a little normal childhood.

“The husband remained a mortgage, loans, it was not insured because we took the loans at a time when he was already ill, so they did not connect him.The collection is for children to have a normal childhood, Rozárka diapers and not have to deal with where I will take the food, ”explains my mother.

Any collected money will also be used for children for children, school aids and trips or on baby food.Donors can contribute on the Donio platform.

“What would I say to everyone in a similar situation?Secure your partner and be strong.No one can imagine what it is until it experiences it, ”says the mother of two children.