• 10/11/2022
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Dita: As a mother I failed, my daughter is getting on my nerves, I don't have the strength of her<

When there is an opportunity to give my daughter to her grandmother, I don't hesitate for a second

Evicka is one of those children who simply cannot entertain herself even for a moment, she cannot take toys and just play , because she doesn't like it. So the whole day is with me, and when I'm cooking or cleaning, for example, I have to be careful all the time, and in the end I feel like I didn't do anything during the day. For example, when my mom says she would like to take her daughter in for the night, I don't hesitate for a second. But all the time that Evička is away from home, she spends catching up on household chores that I missed.

Today I couldn't take it anymore and I had a mental breakdown. I was preparing dinner, but Evička had a constant need to hit him with something, pinched and bit me. My nerves were on edge and I screamed at her terribly. I put her to bed, told her that tomorrow she is not allowed to watch TV and that we won't even go out. I wished her goodnight and turned my back on her. I pretended to be asleep. She, poor thing, just looked at me and had no idea what she had done wrong. Then she caressed my hand and went to sleep too. I was suddenly very sorry for everything.

Dita: I failed as a mother, daughter she gets on my nerves, I don't have the strength for her

Sometimes I really can't handle it. I already needed to confide somewhere. I know I will have to endure it. The partner really does what he can to support us and we had a good time. I can't wait for the little one to go to school and I will finally have time to be a great mother, housewife and wife.

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