• 01/03/2023
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The story of Dasha: The marriage changed the daughter.I'm afraid the man is hurting her<

Daughter is our only child.I got pregnant at a college with a classmate.We were together briefly when we "succeeded".His and my parents were against we had a child, we were afraid, especially mine, that we do not graduate.However, we went to them in spite.During my pregnancy we were just getting to know each other and fortunately gradually finding out that we were created for each other.In the end, our parents understood that we love each other and helped us in every way.

Of course not always all the sunlit.I even interrupted for the year.Husband (a year after the birth of my daughter we got married) after graduation he did everything I could to graduate too.

Since childhood she was cool, nice and cheerful

The daughter was our sunshine.Nice, calm, smiling, we were both happy to have it.We planned to get her siblings, but somehow we missed the right moment.My husband had a good job, even well paid, he would certainly feed us with another child.But I also wanted to go to work, and I managed to find an interesting place.So we thought year after year that now not, that when there are four daughter, then five, then when he goes to school…

And I had some female problems, I had to surgery and the doctors eventually did not recommend another pregnancy.So we were only three, we bought a dog and, as my husband often said, became a second child for us.

We really did my daughter, learned well and was very ambitious.She wanted to be a veterinarian and eventually succeeded.She was independent during her studies, it was her wish before graduation.She started to earn money on the brigade as a nurse in one veterinary office, met the other temporary worker, the girls fell into their eye and rented a small apartment after graduation and managed together.

Charismatic friend

During her studies she met an eleven -year -old man.They got to know each other on a tour by the sea where she went with her friend.He was there with a bunch of friends.After returning home she poems about him how amazing and great.Absolutely different than all those guys who were around her.Was in love and blind.My husband and I were not so excited, after all, she was barely twenty -one and we were afraid she would have different ideas about their relationship than her daughter.

After getting to know him, I understood why he loves him so much.I admit, I really liked it, a decent, charismatic man.I also succumbed to his magic.He was gallant to her daughter, was nice to her, seemed to take her blue from the sky.He could talk to him, assured us to understand how we care about it and that in any case would not let it graduate.He spoke as if they were to marry soon, and they walked together for about two months.But we didn't mind with my husband, we liked it.

Their relationship lasted and after the daughter graduated, they got married.She had moved to him during her studies.She wanted to work, but she spoke more and more often that she wanted to have a baby and he said he said too.But she couldn't get pregnant, she was sorry, but when we talked about it, she said she still had a lot of time and one day it will certainly be done.

Has changed

Gradually, I noticed that my daughter was different, first I attributed it that she couldn't get pregnant, but when she reassured me that she didn't take it, he wore her head what was going on.She was no longer as cool, cheerful as before.She didn't call me so much anymore, nor did they go to our husband so much anymore.When I looked at him as he was, what she was doing, she always booked it somehow.When I told her I would have stopped with them, she made excuses that it wasn't right now.It may have fallen a few times that her husband wouldn't like it.And so it has been repeated many times.

I asked her straight away if everything was fine at their home and my daughter always told me she was and why shouldn't be.But I think it's not, I feel that something is going on.My daughter seems to me as frightened as lifeless.Is completely different than she used to be.I talked to her best friend, and she confirmed to me that something had to happen.That my daughter is no longer with her, before she was dating her husband, they were together in daily contact.

I do not know what to do.I think her husband is to blame that she may hurt her somehow, mentally abuse. Ale jak to zjistit, když ani dcera nic neřekne?Dáša

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