• 02/09/2022
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Magda (45): My husband is a heavy alcoholic.Even though I love him, I have to leave him<

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I know it sounds like some B -soap opera, but my husband I divorce with, I still love.The whole situation breaks my heart.Not half, but really breaks and crushes perhaps a hundred pieces.Pain, lies and disappointment were already so much that I am on the very brink of forces.And with those I have to manage with three children and two work with great care.

With my husband Martin I have the youngest daughter Simonka, with my former husband of the oldest Honza and the middle Klárka.Unfortunately, my first marriage ended with a fiasco, the man was a gambler.But until the executor rang the door, I had no idea.

Jarka (39): A man takes me for granted, no longer praises me

It's beautiful when you meet the right one and perceive the common harmony…

The husband owed where he looked, but he always brought money home and strangely cared for the children.But he was addicted, basically sick and lied to me.I think he no longer knew what was true and what lie.His addiction almost pulled me down with him.Had it not been my brother who paid me a great divorce lawyer, I would end up with the kids in the shelter.

My other man appeared in my life as a miracle, loved me and children, wanted to take care of us and secure us - and he also longed to take me with the kids.In addition, Martin had a good job, his own apartment he could rent and a small cottage near Sázava.Was therefore secured.

Anna (35): A friend longs for a child, but I am threatened with the second birth

The first birth was very traumatic for Anna, the second time he doesn't want to give birth anymore.…

I am not a materialist, but when you get married for the second time, you are just despite all love and romance on some things more cautious and mindful.You need to feel security and background.I had all this including love, so I nodded to the marriage offer.

Our wedding was beautiful, I got married in the open air, my children and the children of my friends flew around, everything was relaxed, lit and uncomplicated.All my loved ones wished me a calm and loving relationship and I longed to give Martin my own offspring he didn't have.Less than a year after the wedding was born our beautiful Simonka.I was extremely happy.

Gabina (40): I cheated a friend with the boss, but in the end I don't regret

What pretends unavailable is the more attractive.But what if you…

Half a year after her birth, however, broke out hell.Martin, like every other Czech, was not an abstinent and sometimes had beer with his friends.He sat in the pub about once a week.I didn't have a problem with that, every guy needs sometimes "fall out" with friends.In addition, husband did not go home namol, always only in a light mood.

But it changed after the birth of her daughter.Martin started drinking.Drinking and wandering at nights, sometimes not even came two days home.Of course I was angry and made scenes, then he chopped Latin for a few weeks and literally wore me on my hands, but I had no idea not only he was wearing me but also his carefully maintained and unobtrusive "surface".

Elizabeth (44): We haven't had sex with a man for two years, just excited by food

Elizabeth has been dissatisfied in marriage for more than two years.Even if…

The crazy thing was that I didn't know anything about my husband on those quiet days!Sometime at that time my husband's sister called me with whom he only met festively.Marta told me at that time I should know that her brother used to have big problems with alcohol years ago and even ended up in the hospital.Then long abstained until he reached the point where he managed to put the beer from time to time.

Marta apologized to me that she did not tell me before, the family did not want it, she was against, but at the same time she wanted a brother a happy family and a new beginning with a clean shield.But now she is afraid that everything is in the old track - she was justified!

I will not forget the day my husband took the hospital.A week before hospitalization agreed to treat, but then lost again and came home literally after four.Was wet, hung, without money and documents.And our children were there!

Jarmila (62): For bad relationships in our family, the property can

Jarmila and Jarda raised two children.They wanted to share them fairly…

During the time the man was in the hospital, I found dozens of hidden unchanged bottles at home and at the cottage.I was terribly.Perhaps the worst in life, but the bottom wasn't yet.This came after a year when Martin abstained again after his release from the hospital, went to therapies and was the most amazing husband and dad.

One day, three days after Christmas, but again did not come home.Missing was four days.Then the police found him at the other end of the country at the station in a state that I will not describe.The man went to the hospital again and I started to find out what he had drank.

Lucie (35): The mother -in -law is a big problem for me.I can't bear her

Lucie feels that her mother -in -law took all the hope of happy…

I found that Martin has not been going to work for several months!But the money sent me.Sold the apartment he rented.Was a master of lies and fabrication.The remaining money from the apartment then drowned in alcohol and in gambling.At that time I thought that although I still love Martin when she doesn't drink, she's the most wonderful guy, I have to cut off from him.And I have to cut off children from him.

It is not easy to elaborate for the second time, it is in a way humiliating.In addition with three children and overlooking alimony, which will pay an unreliable alcoholic, which I still love and regret.